Friendships play a critical role in the social and emotional development of adolescents, serving as resources for psychosocial and academic support (Parker & Asher,
1993; Stanton-Salazar & Spina,
2005). The absence of friendships can lead to feelings of loneliness, increased aversion to school, and increased vulnerability to peer victimization (Bagwell & Bukowski,
2018). However, not all peer interactions lead to friendships; adolescents’ preferences or repulsions, such as liking and disliking, are assumed to drive friendship formation (Beazidou & Botsoglou,
2016). Teachers can also influence these dynamics by serving as social referents, with students inferring peers’ characteristics based on teacher-student interactions (Hughes et al.,
2001). Despite the shared social environment between students and teachers, research has focused primarily on peer dynamics, leaving a limited understanding of how perceptions of both peer and teacher preferences affect friendship networks. This study addresses this gap by using longitudinal social network analysis to examine how adolescents’ own liking and disliking and their perceptions of teachers’ liking and disliking influence friendship dynamics.
Peer (Dis)liking: Dyadic Affection and Reputational Status on Friendship Selection
Peer liking and disliking refer to the positive or negative feelings and attitudes that adolescents have toward each other (Buhs & Ladd,
2001; Card,
2010; Hughes & Im,
2016). These preferences are typically assessed through sociometric procedures, such as peer nominations or ratings (Hughes & Im,
2016). Peer nominations provide at least two types of information. First, they create a network of dyadic (dis)liking nominations, allowing researchers to explore who likes whom and how these dyadic relations affect certain outcomes. Second, peer nominations enable researchers to examine reputations for (dis)liking by counting the number of times an individual is nominated as liked or disliked by others (Rubin et al.,
2006). Dyadic and reputational peer (dis)liking are two distinct but related constructs (Palacios et al.,
2022). The former refers to the mutual affection or positive relationship between two individuals (Buhs & Ladd,
2001), and the latter refers to the overall perception of students within the larger peer group, which encompasses the collective sentiment or reputation students hold among their classmates (Hughes & Im,
2016). This distinction highlights the need to explore both perspectives in understanding friendship dynamics. However, existing research has predominantly focused on reputational (dis)liking, leaving a gap in understanding how dyadic (dis)liking impacts friendship dynamics.
From a reputational perspective, students’ reputations for being (dis)liked by peers may determine whether or not they are seen as attractive friendship partners. Students who are well-liked by others are generally perceived as friendly, helpful, cooperative, and good leaders (Rubin et al.,
2006) and less physically aggressive and more prosocial (Shin,
2017), making them attractive as potential friends. In addition, social preference may be an indicator of a student’s social status in the peer group, which adolescents strive to improve. Social status becomes a highly salient determinant of friendship formation among adolescents (Shin,
2017). Befriending students with high social status can be an effective way to “bask in reflected glory” and improve an individual’s social status (Dijkstra et al.,
2013). Conversely, students who are disliked by many of their peers may be seen as unattractive friendship partners, for example, because these peers may be at increased risk of victimization and thus jeopardize the social status of their friends (Twenge et al.,
2001). As a result, students who are well-liked by their peers are assumed to be attractive to befriend, while those who are widely disliked by their peers are more likely to be rejected and typically avoided (Ryan & Shin,
2018).
While much research has focused on reputational peer (dis)liking and its impact on friendship selection, less is known about the role of dyadic (dis)liking in these processes. From a dyadic perspective, students tend to form friendships with those they like. Research indicates a positive correlation between liking nominations and friendship nominations in Canadian and American elementary schools (Guimond et al.,
2022). Elementary school students typically rate their best friends as the peers they liked the most (Yugar & Shapiro,
2001). Furthermore, a social network study suggests that children defend classmates with whom they like (or friends) and who like them, but do not defend classmates who they dislike and who dislike them (Rambaran et al.,
2022). In terms of peer disliking, research on the co-evolution of peer disliking and friendship is scarce. Notably, a recent longitudinal study found that students were more likely to bully peers they disliked (Kisfalusi et al.,
2022). Given that bullying and victimization typically do not occur within established friendships, this suggests a potential negative relation between peer disliking and friendship selection.
Teacher (Dis)Liking: Social Reference in Friendship Selection
Although adolescents typically seek and develop friendships based on their own interests, personalities, and social dynamics, teachers may also play a role in friendship selection. Consistent with ecological models of development (Bronfenbrenner & Morris,
2006), interactions with both teachers and peers in the classroom context are considered proximal influences on adolescents’ social, emotional, and academic development (Hughes,
2012). However, as adolescents become more attuned to their peers, the question arises as to whether teachers still influence friendship dynamics or whether they are largely on the sidelines.
Teachers can shape adolescents’ friendship networks through their own relationships with the students, serving as a “blueprint” or social reference for affective evaluations of peers (Endedijk et al.,
2022; Hughes et al.,
2001; McAuliffe et al.,
2009). Similar to peer (dis)liking, students’ beliefs about teacher (dis)liking may also affect friendship dynamics in two ways: dyadic and reputational. Dyadic perceived teacher (dis)liking reflects individual observations of teacher-student interactions, capturing personal perceptions of the teacher’s attitude toward that particular student. Reputational teacher (dis)liking is driven by the frequency with which an individual is nominated by others as liked or disliked by teachers, representing the collective sentiment of the group about the teacher’s attitude toward a student (Hughes & Im,
2016). Discrepancies between these individual and collective perceptions may arise from a variety of factors, including differences in personal interactions, differences in interpreting teacher behavior, or potential misperceptions or biases about the teachers’ feelings. Both dyadic and reputational teacher (dis)liking reflect students’ perceptions of teacher-student relationships and may guide students’ friendship selection processes in the classroom.
From a reputational perspective, student who are perceived by many others to be liked by teachers are often seen as accepted and attractive by classmates. For example, a longitudinal study of 5th and 6th graders found that students who are liked by their teachers tend to be included by their peers and then to perform successfully in school (Sette et al.,
2020). While previous studies have found that being liked by teachers promotes positive outcomes, such as positive peer relationships and high academic achievement (e.g., Hendrickx et al.,
2017a; Hughes et al.,
2001; Sette et al.,
2020), being liked by teachers can also have negative consequences for adolescents, such as being labeled a “teacher’s pet” (Babad,
2009). When students believe that a teacher favors a student, it can lead to dislike or rejection of the student (Babad,
2009). This teacher-pet phenomenon has been observed in both Western and Chinese contexts. For example, in the United States, positive teacher behavior was negatively associated with peer liking among elementary school students (McAuliffe et al.,
2009). In a study of elementary school students in Hong Kong, students who were liked by their teachers but not by their peers were identified as “teacher pets” and exhibited withdrawal behaviors (Lu et al.,
2015). Despite these implications, the teacher-pet phenomenon has been surprisingly understudied, particularly regarding its influence on friendship dynamics.
However, students who are perceived as disliked by teachers may also face social challenges. Whereas previous studies have largely focused on the effects of positive teacher-student relationships, few studies have examined how teacher disliking impacts peer relationships, particularly in friendship selection. One of the few studies in this area, using video vignettes, found that both a student reputation and teacher feedback significantly impacted how young children perceived their peers, with negative teacher feedback being especially influential (White & Kistner,
1992). Thus, students with a reputation for being disliked by their teachers may be less likely to be selected as friends, yet this area remains surprisingly understudied, particularly in terms of its implications for friendship selection.
From a dyadic perspective, perceived teacher (dis)liking can model how students evaluate peers and influence friendship selection (Hendrickx et al.,
2017a). Students are likely to adjust their views of classmates based on whether they perceive teachers like or dislike them, a process known as social referencing (Farmer et al.,
2011). For example, a social network study found that students tend to like classmates whom they believe the teacher likes and dislike those whom they believe the teacher dislikes (Hendrickx et al.,
2017a).
Moreover, the extent to which these social referencing effects take place, may depend on the
quality of the student-teacher relationship. A positive teacher-student relationship can lead students to conform to their teacher’s preferences or repulsions, making the teacher a relevant and credible model for friendship selection. Conversely, a negative relationship may lead students to resist or disregard the teacher’s preferences. This aligns with social balance theory (Heider,
1946), which posits that consistency in positive and negative social relationships drives attitudes. The current study considers students’ reputations for teacher (dis)liking as reflective of the overall quality of the teacher-student relationship. A reputation for being liked by the teacher likely indicates a high-quality relationship, as it is something visible and recognizable to many students. This study will examine whether students’ reputations for teacher (dis)liking moderates the link between dyadic perceived teacher (dis)liking and friendship selection. It is likely that students who have a reputation to be liked by teachers (and thus, have a good relationship with their teacher) are more likely to follow the teacher’s affective attitudes by befriending peers perceived to be liked by the teacher and avoiding those perceived to be disliked. When students have a reputation for being disliked by the teacher, the impact of perceived dyadic teacher (dis)liking on their friendship selection may differ. However, no previous studies have examined the moderating role of a negative teacher-student relationship. Therefore, this study aims to extend prior research by exploring whether the effects of perceived teacher (dis)liking on students’ friendships selection are moderated by the students’ reputations for being liked or disliked by teachers.
Peers and Teachers in the Chinese Context
Chinese adolescents growing up in a collectivist society are deeply influenced by Confucian principles, which significantly shape their attitudes and behaviors in the classroom. First, the collectivist culture emphasizes interpersonal harmony, humility, and treating others with respect (Gabrenya & Hwang,
1996). As a result, Chinese students often perceive themselves as closely connected to others and therefore may be less likely to openly express dislike or engage in direct rejection. Second, traditional Confucian values in China emphasize the importance of supporting education and respecting teachers (Jia et al.,
2009). This cultural context creates an expectation that students will demonstrate obedience, humility, and deference to their teachers. Such expectations, in turn, can potentially influence students to adopt their teachers’ (dis)favorable attitudes toward others. For example, given the high value placed on academic success in China, teachers may like high-achieving students, reward them with leadership positions, or hold them up as role models. As a result, these high-achieving students are likely to be liked by most, if not all, of their peers. Despite these influential factors, comprehensive empirical studies of the effects of both teacher and peer preferences on adolescent friendship dynamics in China are lacking. Therefore, it is important to examine how Chinese teachers’ attitudes influence students’ friendship selection.